How to become happy

Each of us dreams of a simple woman's happiness, but it somehow never comes. Waiting for him, waiting, and as there was no happiness and no. We begin to blame all around: parents who are not allowed to marry your first love, her husband, who earns little money, children who are constantly shalyat. But do not understand that the problem lies deep within ourselves. Remember, when the last time you enjoyed a warm sunny day, birds singing, or a sincere smile greeted the dawn? We stopped to enjoy life, do good to others without asking anything in return, help the needy.

Happiness - is not a prize which can be obtained for certain services. Happiness - a state of mind, and only depends on you, how it will be. Consider a simple example. Marine boyfriend presented a bouquet of field daisies, and Natasha nice expensive car. The first girl, in the literal sense of the word was in seventh heaven, while the second remained dissatisfied because dreaming of a luxury apartment. For some, happiness - all this attention and love of people close to someone - money or universal acceptance. Everyone wants to be happy, and everyone has that right. In fact, to become happy is very simple. Only you do not want to believe it. We are so accustomed to suffer, at heart, even themselves without realizing it, do not want to let this state. Our problem is that we love, so we were sorry, or feel sorry for themselves. So much easier. It is easier to turn than to file a helping hand. We turn our backs on each other, rose the gray and sparing little world, "hands over his ears, so as not to hear about the suffering of others. After all, in order to be happy, to live in harmony with itself. A man who does not touch the problems of another, is unlikely to calm the soul.

Would you be happy? Recipe for happiness is simple. One need only take off the mask and be myself. Do good, not asking for anything in return. Most say their loved ones, as they'll road. Enjoy each new day. Determine for yourself what you can make happy: family, money or general acceptance, and boldly go to the goal, smiling all the others. And be, confident, happy smile at you too.